if you set if free......it will come back..........

Sometimes it's all about letting it go.
choosing your battles in what is really important to you or what is really not worth eating up your energy.
sometimes challenges are thrown at me and it makes me wonder, how should i handle this.
quite often i face the challenge of standing up, speaking how i think or feel.
that crazy old confrontation.
I understand that if someone does something to make you feel bad, you should let them know.
but really, what does that do?
It could make them feel bad, maybe i was just being hyper sensitive, perhaps i was having a bad day, maybe they were having a bad day... who knows.
and does it really make them a bad and horrible person.
in all sincerity....
i think, no.

I'm not here to point out peoples flaws, because it's something i feel they should change or be aware of.
If they don't know it, well they have to figure it out all on their own.
that's this funny thing called life and the paths we walk for ourselves.
we all have flaws.
i don't want to change anyone.
they should be who they are.
just like, i am who i am.
maybe i should speak my mind more, and stand up and learn how to deal with confrontation.
who knows.
But maybe, it's just not in me.
as hard it is to do that for me, isn't it just as hard for some people to just let it go?
i don't know.
we've all got to choose our battles and where and what is worth expending our energy.